I can't figure that out - the only thing I know is that I am gone. The long weekend went better than expected, I offered to take her to work Monday so I could od some errands and she agreed. I've not done anything differently -- no R talk, no ILY, no pressure of any sort.
As soon as I got back to where I'm living her attitude with me headed south. Last night was more of the same. I don't know if she saw C, but I'm betting she did. She always seems to have a spell after these sessions where she "remembers" that I am to blame for everything she doesn't like in her life and is seemingly encouraged to strike out on her own.
I've always kind of been the person in her life who she has felt conmfortable sharing her bad moods, so I guess I might just be reapnig what I have sowed. It's OK to be rude and short with me, I always take it.
