. I have to let go and its really not in my nature.
I can see this in your postings. I know it is not as bad as your sitch but in the beginning when W found out I knew where OM lived,worked and played. She told me that if I contacted him "It ws over" her thinking was such that she could tell me what to do but I could tell her. No mater what I said it did not penatrate that thick shull of hers. her way of rashiliszing things in her mind made everything ok for what she did and me.... I was worthless. well.... During Our talk last weekend I asked her what makes it right to tell me that I can't talk to OM but I can't tell her she can't? She did not say anything but had "that look" of ya I see your point. Now I THINK my W OM has no intrest in having a relationship with her. ( like your OW). and It took my w some time to realize it. It was wrong, don't get me wrong but I think the OM just wanted a piece of ass and she gave it too him. THEN.... She started buggig him with phone calls I mean they were talking several times a day. (when I checked records long ago). I can imagiane he would look at his phone and think Man not agian.....
Stay strong lady thinking about ya
Dr Love
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
