WAW's PA over, but still wants Divorce

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This no expectations/detaching is so hard. Last night WAW was back to her b*tchy self again. Made some comment during a show we were watching that was obviously directed at me, but she said it so DS15 would think she was talking to the t.v.

I know it's only been about a month since the affair ended in her mind (at least as best I can figure) and one month isn't nearly long enough for her to deal with the issues she is, but this has been going on for me since last March (when I first suspected an A) and it's just so emotionally draining. Guess I'm not detaching enough.

So help me out here. Is her being ok one day and a b*tch the next to be expected? I'm assuming it is, but it just stinks.