Your friends are right Punk. They have a lot of confidence in you as do I. The irony is that your spouse needs you now more than ever, even it is to be distantly loving and patient with her while she continues self defeating behavior.

Stay on the path, my friend.

mmf

Me:56, W:51
D:26,S:24,S:22
Married:18
Bomb 9/27/06
Separated 11/27/06
Divorced 10/6/08
Leaving it up to God