Hello nlt,

I'm not an expert but I've read so many threads, esp in Surviving the big D and Divorced but not done, that give hope. It's not over until YOU decide it's over.

I have also found an article, quite an insite into OW-WAH's souls, I thought it might be of interest to you. Can't find the URL now, but the link is on my thread .

Did you get to keep the dogs? My H and I have a dog and a cat and if worse comes to worst I will fight tooth and nail to keep them both! He can keep the OW:)
In the light of the article, much good it wiil do to him!


I ask not for a lighter burden, but for broader shoulders
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M 46
H 45
D 17
M/T 23
Bomb #1 (ILYBNILWY) 12.06
Bomb #2 (OW) 12.07
Bomb #3 (chose OW over M) 9.08