I am trying to keep up with you! I went back over the post on this thread to see where you said what.......I don't know.
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As far as what Forrest had to say about the woman sort of pushing the man to do things.......
Were you referring to that I said to DomR? That was my summary of what I gathered you were telling me. Have I misunderstood you that badly?
Man, we are a pair! I was asking for suggestions b/c you kept telling me to do something to get my H out of that chair. As I told you....I'm out of ideas.
I have to go back over what you say and what DomR says to remember b/c both of you are telling me that it is me that will have to do something to charge my H up and get him to know my needs. (Again that is a summary) DomR (my counselor/friend.....lol) dissects and analyzes me and my stitch. I love him but sometimes he gets me a little nuts (lol), don't tell him I said that......I know he won't read this. He thinks I never was in MLC and I try to explain to him I was selfish and self-centered and it was all about me. I was in a "fog", etc. Oh well.
It is almost getting funny now. When I wake up before 3:00 a.m. I get like this.
I think I gave you the link to my very first post that told my stitch as to why I came on board, etc. As far as you going back to read everything.....it would take a while and you would see where I repeat myself a lot. A bad habit of mine.
I dont' remember you calling me crazy, but you could have b/c I was for a while. At least, something was seriously wrong, but that is why I think I had the MLC symptoms.
Are you getting me confused with somebody else? It's ok, b/c I do the same thing....lol. We are going to be good friends Forrest b/c I remember the very first post I read that you had posted to somebody else and I was so mad at you I wanted to reach through the computer and grab you (I think I've told you that already....repeating myself again), but then I would read other places and think you had it right on!
You can give me a hit up beside the head.....I can take it, but at the same time, I may come back swinging! (lol)
Oh well, maybe we can get in "sync" one of these days. Let's keep trying anyway.
Sandi
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
