LMG, Are you seeking help from a solution-oriented therapist? Instead of dwelling on the past, these trained counselors focus on solutions. If you are spending money just to vent, you are not providing yourself a "way out" of this situation. If you over-analyze your marriage, it usually ends in blame, and there's no solutions to work upon.
If you wish, Michele's staff could recommend a counselor in your area. You can e-mail Virginia, or call the 1-800 number on this site for info. The choice is yours.
