Wow, that's a bit spooky. I just posted on your thread. Yeah, 40/60 is kindof confusing since it's set up differently than DB. On the left of the home page (fortysixty.org) click on "Men in Midlife" or "Midlife Crisis" for info. The forums are in "Our Forums", then "Women's Forums". Once you get to the forums, try clicking on "Blogs" at the top of the page. You may have to register to view some of the forums, but there are a couple I really liked because it was a man talking about his MLC - I think one of them is called "Newman's Own".
I've been doing okay. It's tough staying detached while he starts to cycle back towards me. I know he's not ready for a full reconciliation, and I don't want to be disappointed and hurt the next time he cycles away. But he seems to be frustrated when I act a bit elusive, so I feel like I'm walking a fine line. You are doing a much better job of me being active and busy. It's hard when most of my friends are married and busy with their single friends. I just don't seem to fit any mold anymore. But I'm still trying to GAL and keep busy and not sound as though I'm waiting for him. It's been a good week for H and I and I will take it as a good sign and try not to expect too much.
Take care, FA
What does not destroy me, makes me stronger.
FA:43, H:42 D:7 M:10 yrs, T:24 yrs EA:?, PA:1/06 S:3/07 EA/PA ongoing Aborted attempt to move home 07/08
