John You know from reading my posts I am in the foxhole with you, pal. I want it to work so badly but trying to make it work alone is sucking the life out of me. I don't want my kids raised in a "broken" home, but I don't want them to see mommy crying anymore either. I know I will cry if/when H and I D, but with time I will move past it. Don't know what could/would happen in my H and M to make me feel like crying is a thing of the past....
Church series has been on Agape/superhuman love, as my pastor calls it. The first week was on love for our fellow man, the next 2 weeks were on how to live out unconditional love in your M. This week it will be titled "Tough Love". Pastor says loving unconditionally does NOT = doormat. So I am eager to learn what he has to teach me about being strong while also loving unconditionally?? I support your decision to move out, your W needs to know you can't continue to tolerate/support her current lifestyle. I know it is anti-DB to leave, but there is that part of the book on "When it isn't working" or something like that. I am in the "After the Last Resort" point at this time I think...
Anyway no real advice to you, just support. I can't stand to think of telling D and S that Mommy and Daddy aren't going to be together anymore....So I feel for you.
