Thanks John. Just got off phone w/H he called to say he was emailing me? Said he has so much inside and doesn't know how to say it (has been his problem our entire marriage, inability to communicate). I said if the bottom line of the message is how you can't leave OW and don't want to be w/me then save me the time of reading it. He said, no, it's not that. I said well then just hit me with the headline. He said I really don't know what is going to come out when I start typing. I said well I have written you enough and talked w/you enough that you know what I want/need/expect from you and from my M. He said I know. I said, And you know what I would expect from the man who marries our daughter, and how I expect our son to treat his wife. He said, I know. I said okay type away...