I have not posted for a while but its time to get back on the horse and get refocussed.
For the record here is the short version of my journey
Dec06 W tells me that we should separate Late Jan 07 I find this board and order DR Late June 07 W moved out leaving me with kids. Jan 08 W moves to cottage and we share custody of D12.
All through this period we have kept in regular contact and I have tried and succeded I think in applying the principals of Divorce Busting.
I already consider this a success as we have succeded in remaining friends through this and have delt with things between us quite well.
Now things have changed a little.
We went out together in the weekend to a concert at which assisted by alcohol we shared some very close moments with a passion that we have not had between us for a couple of years.
It was certainly a bit dream like holding each other like we did years ago. Now we are back to reality and have both backed off feeling somewhat confused. W has despite this shown a softer attitude towards me over the last few days and I have being seeing a bit more of the women I remember.
Thats about it for now, no pursuing and back to doing what we were doing. No expectations.
I do realise that I am not really done and realy need to refocus on the goal , experiment with what works and what doesn't.
What I do know is ;
I am more alive now than i have been in years , I am happier in most respects than i have been. I have my W as a friend right now and she also considers me as a close friend. We still both have baggage from our old R that gets in the way from time to time but we both seem to be able to get over any problems quickly.
I dont see us back together in the medium term as W still has a different path to follow right now , but thats OK with me.
