I'm glad you're feeling better and hope D3 (almost 4!) gets over her crummies soon too.
Agree with Rob.. of course And of course he's treating strangers better. He at least has a chance of convincing them he has his poop in a group. He knows you know the real deal and it can't be easy for him to face you, especially if he was told OW's H called. This is a man who knows he's lost and probably feels that "happiness" is a future place he'll arrive at when he escapes the mess he's made there. I hate to say this, but IMO, he's not going to change anything until he confronts his greener grass fantasy and figures out he can't run from the source of his unhappiness - himself.
Look at how well you're doing Sue! Even when things are hard to handle you keep your head on straight. I think you're much stronger than you even realize. Take things one day at a time and keep taking care of yourself and D3.
And of course he's treating strangers better. He at least has a chance of convincing them he has his poop in a group. He knows you know the real deal and it can't be easy for him to face you, especially if he was told OW's H called. This is a man who knows he's lost and probably feels that "happiness" is a future place he'll arrive at when he escapes the mess he's made there. I hate to say this, but IMO, he's not going to change anything until he confronts his greener grass fantasy and figures out he can't run from the source of his unhappiness - himself. 
