I am trying to keep up.

When did I ever say "Its the woman's job?" I specifically said "You posted.. You get my vote!"

You are the one "looking for answers!".

For me I latch in on the emotion of the event. Or to make it more clear the "CRAZY". I can relate to that. I can see it. Trust me if I call you crazy you have my full attention.

Sorry to just respond to 1 tiny part but I have really gotta sit and read everything you have posted Sandi2.

Relax
Eat
Think
Act normal
React.. Smartly.
Do something different.
Emulate.
Do Work.

Lets get "RETARDED" in here.