Hey, I'm sorry the judge was not the one you were hoping for. However, you will get to do the parental evaluation (just like me) and your wife will have to disclose EVERYTHING W/ PROOF, so you'll have your chance to have your say.
My L told me that most Ws go into the parenting evaluation discussing what is best for "them" and not the kids. Be sure to focus on your kids and practice your lines w/ your L well in advance.
I am disappointed for you b/c I know you were looking for more concrete answers, but they didn't ocme. They will come, but it just won't be today. I'm sorry about that, my friend, but you will be fine.
You are a wonderful father and a good man. Keep those two things in prespective and you'll continue to do well.
I guess now we have even more in common, eh?
I'm heading off to the airport now, but I e-mailed you my phone number if you want to contact me this weekend.
Take care. You did well today because you will prevail here. It will just take more patience.
