My BIL lost his passport for being a deadbeat dad. He still blames his ex for not being touch with his son. He even puts it on the son for not being in touch. Makes me mad but at the same time I am happy that my nephew is not around the loser. It just would be nice for him to at least show some responsibility towards his son. The sad and maddening thing is that my exSIL was never going to go after him. She only did so with pressure from her new husband.
Well, good for her new H!!! I hate it that these people can get away with that. My first X payed me a grand total of $15 in 7 yrs for our S. However, when our S passed away, I felt no guilt, whatsoever. I know I did everything I could to take care of him. I know that my X is still guilt ridden over his actions and he's never recovered from it.