Point taken. I really will try to let it just be two great friends getting together for dinner.
However, here's a question.
What if she comes on to me? What if she gets those lovin' feelings?
The reason I ask is because it happened 3 weeks ago. Just the two of us, no expectations, out for dinner, halfway thru the night she starts saying, "what am I going to do with you?" then starts touching my arm, playing with her hair, flirting like crazy. By the end of the night she was saying she wanted to get back together. I stayed overnight, and that was it, we were back on.
Should I say "hey you, I thought we agreed to take this slow" and shut her down? Not a big boost to her self esteem.....