yr...im not even sure home is the best place for him anymore. he appears to be content to let his issues slide....why work on them when he can say he loves me and he doesnt have to face his guilt or demons, by not having to kick her out, he can stay in limbo doesnt have to deal with guilt or anything.


Me 53
H 51
OW 25
Bomb may 06
left june 8/ 06
ILYBNILWY (twice!)
7/6/07 H wants to come home
7/21/07 H comes home
7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW
now piecing in earnest