alwayshoping,

lwb is right, I would definately set that rule down now! If OW has to call him, she needs to limit it to his cell or pay phones or whatever. The whole situation is wrong, but that is just over the limit!
Start with small boundaries and work from there, if she continues to call your home, I would tell him that I will be having the number changed and just not be giving it to him. There has to be a line in the sand somewhere...
Just my 2 cents. The OW in my case has never called my home, she has texted me and I let my H know that if that were to continue that I would go and speak to her in person, which is not a good plan for anyone, so mercifully it stopped.


M:39
H:39
K:S14;D8
T:22yr
M:15yrs
S:12/28/07 EA/PA
3/14/08 OW preg
11/17/08 born
12/12/08 his
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Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option