Oh, it hasn't been filed yet. In fact, about three weeks ago, she approached me to have a sit-down meeting at lunch to begin discussing the settlement of assets, custody, etc. This meeting was delayed by a weather-related school closing, so she asked me to re-schedule. I obliged, only to have the weather interfere again. She has not mentioned it in the past two weeks.
Has your attorney advised you on any steps you can take to protect yourself against a "sneak attack?" Since you know where your M is headed, it might be wise to prepare.