I am making no effort to initiate or schedule these meetings. This is her disaster to create, and I will not lift a finger to help make it happen.
Glad to hear that! The longer you can avoid this, the longer you will get to be a "full-time" dad and protect your kids from whatever potentially sicko OM she may hook up with.
Just try to think of her as an immature teenage girl who's taking up space in your home in exchange for baby-sitting services.
(Am I a little too harsh or what???)
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
