what's the word I'm looking for? tiresome, jerky, I don't know.
You can't use those words, they are saved for *my* H. I especially like 'jerky'.
That being said, ignore his spew, he is demonizing you to justify his actions. My H spent all of Tuesday telling me how much I failed our marriage. I listened and moved on with my day. Don't let him chip away at your great attitude. And feel better, young lady!!!