Still Confused - Just not as fresh

[Snow White]

Well I ended up going back to talk to OW. And once again I left baffled. She makes it impossible for me to be angry at her she is very calming. I believe that H is near stalking her. She does respond, and as I see on the phone bill has talked even recently(the night I went out and H texted me the whole time) for up to a half and hour so he couldn't be bothering her too much. But she says she tells him not to call and that he should be with his W. She says she is not interested in him as anything other than a friend and even in the beginning when there was the subject brought up of a relationship that she told him he was not her type that he is too skinny, has too little hair and is too old. She says she likes a bigger guy(probably since she is bigger, more like 250 and up. H was 185 and is down to 165 with stress. She still says all convos are oddly innocent, asking how she is, what is going on with her ex, that he never broaches any subject of a relationship between them. He has told her however that he and I have not had sex since December and just recently that I am leaving him. So the beauty of it is my H is leaving us for absolutely nothing. And he is pissed at me. Really. He sent me a text saying I hope you had a good time cause this will be your last. I asked if he meant he was going to kill me, he said don't be stupid. Well at least that is good! She told me that her cell phone runs out of time this week and she is changing her number and she will text it to me so I can watch for it on the bill I said, better idea don't give it to him! She mentioned that he had called and left her a nasty message the one night becuase he saw a car of a coworker at her house and said so are you sleeping with x now? She thought this was odd because she really was under the impression they have no R.

Puppy I had no question for you, just wanted to point out how right you were that H was calling her immediately before or after ML to me.