Thanks! I was kind of wondering if that was somehow controlling. I'm trying not to act that way.
I don't think it came off as controlling. I think it has a lot to do with the way you say it. You just offered solutions. If you had gotten angry I think the outcome would have been different.
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The only thing I dread is it not happening within my timeframe and having to have that talk. How much more "lenient" with my boundaries can I be? Not much, I think.
I know it has been a LONG time...but try not to be too strict on the timeline. Don't get too upset if it doesn't happen exactly when you want it to. Like I said, I think the time to worry would be if he pays another months rent.
