Happy Birthday to your daughter. I can only imagine how hard this is for your kids. My own parents sep when I was 12 - it's a difficult age as it is.
I just can't stop thinking that somehow your wife will come to her senses and want to be a mom and wife again...something's missing from this sitch...I don't know what.
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."