It means he's "onto" you.
Figured out how you think.
Not the "SMART" way you think but that stupid way that all of us women have a tendency to revert to in some form or fashion.

Lighten up.

And good grief, why would YOU drop the rope just because HIS neck is out of joint? That's basically what it boils down to, Dar. He's not all hearts and butterflies and worse, he hurts and isn't letting you take care of him. This is a spirit of offense that's making you feel bad. Trust me. One rides on my back every day. I didn't even realize when the sucker dug his heels in for the long haul. Don't let this one attach itself to you.

Is that plain enough or do you want to just go get an 8-Ball and ask it what it's sources point to?


;\)