I just want to add one more thing as you are getting some good stuff here, DO NOT VERBALLY AGREE TO ANYTHING WITH H!
Talk to a lawyer first and do not sign anything from him.
Basically wait for lawyers advice on anything.
It's worth the knowledge and remember have a list of questions and try not to get the tears flowing as the counciller bill will probably cheaper than your lawyer bills.
Good luck and ask away, and if you have any questions I'll help if I can.
E
"Sometimes in the winds of change, we find our true direction"