1.) Other woman does not deserve to know that you even waste your time thinking about her. She is beneath you.
2.) If OW calls it off your H will forever blame you. He needs to return to you because he realized the OW is not what he wants, not because she won't have him.
Hugs to you neecy, I know this is a very difficult time.
Me 54 DS19 and DS17 Married 06/1989 Divorced 01/2011