I went up to c appointment yesterday and saw w while I was up there. We spent most of the day together.
We were driving over to get lunch and I was telling her a little about c session.
She stopped me in mid sentence and told me:
"I can't tell you how much you mean to me, you have always been there for me. And when things went bad at work you were there for me, you were the only one that believed me, believed in me, and was there for me". She said "I can't tell you how much that meant, It showed how much you love me"... "You could have gotten mad at me and told me that, I made my bed now sleep in it, but you didn't, you stood by me"...
"I can tell that the changes in you are geniune and that you are not just trying to BS me into coming back, I have seen it and so have the kids and my mom"...
"I feel like I just opened my eyes and saw you again, now we can get to know each other again and be friends and do this again starting off on the right foot..
"And yes I noticed that you put your ring back on, and that means alot to me too"...
We talked for probably 1/2 hour in the parking lot of the smoothie place.
For the first time in months I feel that there is a real chance for our marriage..
I know, as does she, that there is still much work to do but I think we are headed in the same direction.
