I stopped by today SOLELY to check on your sitch, and see how you were doing. I'm not sure what your question is for me, though?
Were it me, I wouldn't send the e-mail. I think it makes you "equals" and of course you'd have to lower yourself CONSIDERABLY to get on the same level as her! Like American presidents who send the Sec'y of State to meet with the foreign leader, I just don't think you should dignify OW with your direct contact. If you do, I would make it VERY short, confident, and something like:
"Good luck. Sometimes one should be careful what they wish for; not everything (or everyone) is as they seem. Things do happen for a reason, though."
