Thank you for posting the recent leg of your journey. It was helpful to read. I'm glad things are moving in the right direction for you and hope that someday I will be able to post a similar message to everyone here.
I believe that loving someone unconditionally is a very important key to unlocking and maintaining a healthy relationship. I think that my loving my H unconditionally is what has kept him at home thought these tough times.
Communication is extremely important as well and keeping the lines of communication open can be a determining factor in how we deal with one another on a day to day basis. I have to admit that both my H and I have been able to communicate rather effectively through this mess.
I hope nothing but good things for you and your family in the future. Please continue to keep posting updates.
Thanks!
BA
Me:43 H:48 M:24 yrs T: 26 yrs 2 kids ILYNILWYA 8-07 - MOW 9-07 H moved out 8-2-08 Back 8-18-08 Affair continues Back home but not emotionally