RU:

Thank you for posting the recent leg of your journey. It was helpful to read. I'm glad things are moving in the right direction for you and hope that someday I will be able to post a similar message to everyone here.

I believe that loving someone unconditionally is a very important key to unlocking and maintaining a healthy relationship. I think that my loving my H unconditionally is what has kept him at home thought these tough times.

Communication is extremely important as well and keeping the lines of communication open can be a determining factor in how we deal with one another on a day to day basis. I have to admit that both my H and I have been able to communicate rather effectively through this mess.

I hope nothing but good things for you and your family in the future. Please continue to keep posting updates.

Thanks!

BA


Me:43
H:48
M:24 yrs T: 26 yrs
2 kids
ILYNILWYA 8-07 - MOW 9-07
H moved out 8-2-08 Back 8-18-08
Affair continues
Back home but not emotionally