Hey Sara, I soo wish things would have worked out that I could have met up with ya. How did the talk go? I'm sure you did fine. As for the gambling.... I like the nickels you don't win much but you can play for a long time. Do the machines there still give out money instead of tickets? That was the disappointment I had at Vegas. I like the sound of the change when it hits the tray. Maybe that's why I only lost $40.00.
Maybe your next talk will be in san Fran. Then NikB and I can take you on a tour of the 'wine country" I live in...(Too bad I drink beer and J.D. never developed the taste for wine)
Dr Love
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
Mmc, Ya W take's the things apart all the time. What bothers her sometimes is I can do more things on the computer because I am a learn by doing kind of guy and I have “played” on the computer more. She is an "analytical". Funny thing. She prides herself on her analytical abilities while I am a "does it on the fly" kind of guy. When this Crap first happened I ALMOST said: for an analytical you sure did not analyze the consequences of your actions this time did ya". Then again maybe she did. (Let’s see even if I do this and I know it's wrong, husband is a wimp and won't do anything about it). Have not had a chance to look at my E-mail yet. As for the $250.00 thanks for the offer but it is too late. W was not asking me if she should do it she just did it.....
Ok I have a general Question for everyone. This may be a stupid question but as we all know sometimes the littlest of things make a big difference. W has not been keeping up with the laundry. I have offered to help. (Even though she does nothing but sit on the computer all day long at home). But she snapped back that "she can do it". This is the second day (please ladies don't think I am yucky) that I have not had "clean socks" to wear. Now in the past I would have left a note on our message board saying. "I am out of socks". But I got to thinking.... Someone here on the board has been posting that the dialogue they have with their husband was always "text messaging" when I read their posts I thought to myself. “Why text messaging? Can’t these people just talk to each other?" then I looked in the mirror... Duh.... look at me I leave messages and write letters. So I first thought I would call home today and let W know about my socks. But.... then started thinking about my great recourse here and all of you "been there done that" people. Sooo should I
1. Call home and just let W know I am out of socks 2. Call home and ask Wife if I should stop and pick up more socks because I keep running out? (Ya see Men wear things until there is nothing left. Wives tend to throw perfectly good stuff out just because of a little hole. Maybe I am just running low. 3. Just stop and buy socks. (Even though it is not much money I am aware of the money sitch and every penny saved it a day longer making mortgage payments.
Side note: As some of you are aware I have a prosthetic leg. I only change the sock on my real foot. So it's not like I dirty two socks every day.
Ok enough talk about my under wear... hey yoyo and saffie... how is your underwear doing????
Dr Love
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
I was thinking the same thing,like I said it is a small thing but hey it's communication right? something my w and I are lacking.. NO More Letters.....
H
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
just read your mail. Thanks... I will respond when I get home. I think Yoyo lives about half way between you and I. Maybe we can meet there and she can make us dinner? back at ya soon
Husband
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
I agree with Joie. Don't make a big thing of it though - perhaps you could just say you couldn't find any and perhaps she could point you in the right direction .....
My underwear is fine and dandy thanks Dr Love
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
Ok today was a good day, I got to help my Uncle by driving his tractor. (I LOVE TO DRIVE IT BIG BOY TOYS YA KNOW) I am working on my farmers tan for yoyo When I got home W had taken MIL shopping and she told me that she had to just drop off MIL and could not stay because she had to pick up son. I told her I was going to be home working on the tree house (that son shows no interest in not GRRRRRRRRRR). And told her she should go spend time with her mom. So W did. OK Now when she got home I told her Yoyo’s joke she thought it was funny. Then while making dinner she said that she should have the Taxes done soon and that should hold us over until she finds a job. THEN she said that her Mom wanted to loan us the money to pay off our house......Ok I have in my mind that we will be selling the house if we get D. and here she is talking about paying it off. Anyway she told her mom no. Trying not to read anything into this but my head is just spinning between positives and negatives......
Ok some other stuff. I had a "woman" come up to me at work today and said I "smelled good". She said that she noticed it the other day and wanted to know what I was wearing so she could by some for her husband. WOW Nellie...........
Got to go get son from down street (wife's Request)
Later
DrLOve
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
No need to talk about socks. When I got home they were done. W and I had a Great talk about son's B-Day. Maybe MMC can relate but there is something about the tone of a voice and the "snappy" ness of a conversation that is diferant. I mean we could have had the same conversation a month ago with the same exact words and it would have been diferant. But the tone and expressions last night were really up beat.I have not done my "Plan" yet. I am waiting for the right time. Soon baby soon.
later DrLove
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
I don't think things are headed twards D on my W part.( maybe oon mine soon). But... there is no comitment yet.Kind of waiting a little to see if she gets a job soon. so I can't say we are Piecing. My question is. Whenever I bring up a good memory about something we did in the past W always say's " that was a long time ago". Not in a happy way. but in a "things have changed way"like saying "that was then this is now. My problem is she did not think this way when she slept with her XBF. THEY Cheated on his wife long before we were married. But That Long time ago memory is ok to her. This bothers me. We are just starting to communicate. I know bringing up the OM is a no no but In this isnstance do any of you think I should communicate how when she says that it bothers me. I know that if I said " Wife I want to just let ya know everytime I bring up a good past memory about us when you say "that was long ago" it makes me feel bad" I know her anser will be " well It was a long time ago things have changed. AND then I would probaly have a smart ass come back of " well you and XXXXX were together long ago and that did not stop you from seeing him agian...
I don't know it's just that I want to start expressing my feelings but I don't know if it is too soon... I know the remark about the Om will upset some of ya but that is how I feel..
MMC any sugjestions??
Dr Love
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
