It depends on what exactly you are thinking or worrying about. I think we could all benefit from a greater understanding of detachment. If you are thinking about how to improve yourself and all that good DBing stuff no problem. Even if you are thinking about your spouse, I would be worried if you weren't just a little because we are human and do love our spouses, I don't see that as a problem either.
If you are constantly worried or trying to control the sitch then you aren't detached.
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