Patti, Glamgirl has given you some good advice. Please listen to it.

I think the suggestion that Warren pick up the rent is a good one. Plus he will be there to see what is going on...not that you want to snoop. BUT Warren is in your corner and will have your best interests at heart.

Remember that the OW are stubborn and don't want to let go. Just keep praying that she will find another path in life and to let your H be...

Pray or meditate on how you can help yourself through this difficult time.

Kisses!
Vali

Aug '06: H moved out
July '08: H had a kid with the OW
May 12 '09: emancipation day

"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller