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He knows how I feel, but how can I get this across to him consistently without breaking all of the DB rules, and without having a big R talk?



if you (re)read the DB book... you'll see that it is all about DOING. Not about talking.

My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D.
Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M.
3 wonderful sons caught in the middle