My story, please help

[GavinO]

Any suggestions as to what I do?

I want to save our marriage but she is so focussed and obsessed with destroying everything (including her parents and everyone else)

A good friend of both of us I spoke with yesterday (she said she went to see him and she told me she saw him) and he said that he hates it but I should give up and sort my own future out. I asked him if there was someone else & he said that he doubted it, she said she has had offers but is not interested in it.

aaarrrggg what is going on and why, why the absolute determination to divorce, the refusal to sort it out. MC or a split or a 2nd chance have all been ignored in favour of D.