No i havn't actually, just asked why D and get the 'dont want to try again, no love left in me, no future together, I'm the problem, I'm a git' etc.

Basically she wants to offload her life and get on with it (living at parents etc) Which is not who she is.

Last year we got the house extended (July to September/Oct) and we got a new suite in Oct. As people have pointed out that is not the actions of someone who is in a failing relationship and planning on a divorce.

Os is it?!?

Me: 30
W: 31
T: 9.5 yrs
M: 4 Yrs
No Kids, 1 cat
Had a bad year
Turmoil started 22/Jan/08
Seperated, same house 30/Jan/08
Wanted D: 2/Feb/08
Going downhill and towards D with nothing stopping her!