Good point Ian. Even though people are different from circumstance to circumstance, one common thread seems to be this need for independence. Where our spouses want to have their own individuality, especially the women MLCers.

DNQ, I would not pull back the offer or even change drastically what you have been doing. Stay even with her and continue doing what is working.

You are doing awesome!!!


Me:56, W:51
D:26,S:24,S:22
Married:18
Bomb 9/27/06
Separated 11/27/06
Divorced 10/6/08
Leaving it up to God