Thats awesome man! Defin. a baby step. Keep doing what yr doing. Maybe thngs arent going as well w OM. Just be a friend right now. As hard as it is try and be nice and caring. Just not a door mat like u said. I am still having problems w this "tough love" part. My WAW has called me several times now for me to pick up our daughter from daycare on her days and also cover some of her days. What r her priorities? At the same time in a meeting w our lawyers she asked for physical custody mon-fri. Right now we do her mon. tues. me wed. thurs. thn rotate wkends. She cant even handle her days now cause of her stupid business but is asking for more days. Nice huh? Oh well got to love this crazy ride. Thanks for letting me vent. I hope I get a hug for mine some time. I hugged her a couple times but she always just stands there doesnt reciprocate anything back.