W seems to be going full tilt towards D with little to no consideration to me or my fellings. She is adamant that she will not try again. She is chuckingh everything away and does not seem to care at all, she is going out regularly and staying away.
Her parents are in dispair as are my parents and our friends.
We had a rough year and apart from a couple of bad points (not that bad really)I am actually bl00dy good.
She is not considering anything, no councelling no separation, no try again nothing, just full steam towards D. She is blaming me for everything and her claims are unrealistic and her reaction (D) is extreme. WTF is going on!?! There is pracically no let up at all!
From what I understand she is gonna chuck it all in and go live with her parents, at nearly 32!
Even her parents think she is unfair and overreacting, they are devestated!
Could it be that she has got so powerful because of this that it has gone to her head?!? She is upsetting everyone and really does not seem to care at all.
Anyone got anything I can inject her with to sort her out?
I still have texts from early Jan saying she loved me loads etc, even late Jan (when it went downhill) she was a bit unsure but now its full tilt?
She seems to have changed into the opposite of what she is.
Any wives or ex wives here done something like that and could provide an insight?!?
Is it really this hard?!? I want to save our marriage but she is not giving a millimeter, nothing.
WTF!!!!
Me: 30 W: 31 T: 9.5 yrs M: 4 Yrs No Kids, 1 cat Had a bad year Turmoil started 22/Jan/08 Seperated, same house 30/Jan/08 Wanted D: 2/Feb/08 Going downhill and towards D with nothing stopping her!
