It's really hard to stick on your faith for your H & you when you see him so unsure and acting crazy. I've been there, f&$k! it seems that my H is there at the moment, wondering if he is good for me or not... What I read somewhere that got stuck in my head was that "the choices we make when in love, are basically, originally correct" what happens afer that, is a different story.
Your thoughts are valuable, you are setting your standards even if you don't realise it. You are not going to cut yourself short this time, you will want and demand the whole package and that's great for YOU. Nothing rude about it. You will need to answer these questions to yourself, be honest with/about him and you.
