Has the Ice Queen started to melt a bit? This morning when the WAW came to pick up the boys from my apartment, she walked in and picked up my 2 year old, and then moved over to hug me. This is the first attempt at anything like that since this started. Then, as I was helping the boys finish getting shoes on and everything, she mentioned that we should get together like once every other week for a family get together instead of just dropping them off and us going our separate ways!!! I agreed and said I thought that was a great idea and that it made sense. A minute or two later, I looked over and she was fighting back tears. I asked what was wrong and she blew it off saying it was 'that time of the month'. I did not push at all.
Anyway, needless to say, I was blown away. She has not tried to push on anything on the friend front at all. Or even really seemed to be trying to be friendly at all. And then this!! I am trying not to be excited, but this is the first positive thing that I have actually seen.
As far as future plans... I am going to continue along the path that I am taking and not read anything into it right away. Things have to change to actually be considered a change. Talk is cheap. I need to see some changes. I am sick and damn tired of being the LBS. I do not enjoy it and am refusing to be in that role anymore. I am going to continue to DB and move forward for me.
But still...
Ken Me: 37 Her: 38 Son: 8 (spina bifida) Son:2 M 6/24/1994 S 1/21/2008 Original Sitch
