Kimmie! No one can say what will happen with your H and OW. However, statistically, affair relationships don't last because WAS don't realize it's not the people they are with that make a good relationship. If they had problems in the relationship they're leaving, they're gonna have problems in the new one, too.
It takes two in any relationship and he certainly didn't try very hard. You were not to blame for all of the problems. I'm sure this next relationship is not going to be smooth sailing either. He's going to find it very challenging to suddenly have 2 more kids to deal with.
I know your heart is breaking over this but remember to DB -- for your own emotional and mental health. You can't make him come back to you. But the more you DB, the better you will feel. And when you do get to see him, you're going to look (and feel) great!
