Don't take any of the blame for this! He is splitting hairs! and now he is going to find anything he can to make you the guilty party in this, and how you are is to blame! My H also told me I was boring in bed! and it was total BS! They will swing for anything to make themselves feel better! I know you were venting, but don't lessen yourself! Don't go after her, its just not worth it! There was so many times I just wanted to smack the OW in the mouth, but I just stayed away!! To this day I am not sure if I ever saw her face to face I wouldn't! But you are really doing yourself proud! Stay strong!
Me - 44 H - 44 M - 19yrs together - 23yrs D16 S8 EA/PA - Bomb Oct20/06 Jan 8/07 Feb 01/07 Jul 15/07 H still @ home Recovered!