Sara, I meant to say that my H too came back once - it was after OW took him on overseas trip all expenses paid. He kept phoning me from overseas so depressed, saying he was coming back. He rushed to me as soon as he arrived back and stayed for 2 nights - stupid me just let him while knowing deep down that he wasn't ready to give up OW. He left at midnight on the 3rd night without even saying good bye to the kids. They were devastated.
Me: 39, H: 37 Married 12 yrs EA 01/07, bomb 07/07. He moved out 09/07. Lived alone for some time, moved in with OW in 2009, moved out again Mar 2010 S:8 D:11
