I need alittle help with this one It seems that my S 15 has conveyed to my W that his intentions are to stay with me moving on to my next base and my W wants me to decide if the children are going to stay with me or not so she knows what size of house to get. I have always told them that since she has only been out of the house for two weeks to not make a decision until later or until they are sure of what they want. I just don't know what do do.....what to tell my W?

Any help or advice would be great, I am just so confused.

My sitch is on my signature....


Me 36
W 36
S 15
D 12
M 16
Bomb Nov 07
WAS Feb 08
My Sitch http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1376213&page=0&fpart=1