Just had to add one more for tonight.

W called a while ago...we talked for 80 minutes....my ear is sore!

Really, really nice chat, she asked a little more about the email I sent a few days back, basically saying I was comfortable with her moving on, and I don't expect her back; same goes for me.

She said "why did I wake up this morning thinking you wanted a divorce?"

I told her again that I prefer that we are together, but if she wants to move on I won't hold her back. I do mean that. There is no pressure, and no guilt to be felt by either of us.

She thanked me for that, and then threw a bit of a curveball. Started throwing "if we get back togethers" into the conversation. I said we went too fast last time, so now we should just relax and take it easy. We should start again as friends and just see where that takes us. She agreed and thought we should keep the future open.

Two nights ago I asked her if she thought she'd be moving on. She said probably.

Tonight she is saying "if we get back together".

Big baby step!