I am heading back to Michigan in the morning. Have been in Florida for 6 weeks now. H promised me when I left he would dump OW and of course he has not!! I am at a complete loss and dont know what to do or how to handle this. I think I still want the marriage to work but i'm not so sure anymore. The longer this goes on the harder it is. I mean is it really worth it? I think I would still like to try but what do I do about OW???? There relationship is not normal I checked phone records for last month, there was a day that they called each other 23 times!!!!!!! I am going to try the 180 when I get back but H is not living at home and I really dont see him much at all. I havent gotten much of a response on here so I stopped writing but would somebody please offer me some advice! Please just a little insight would be great.