well my W called just now. asked what i was doing. told her i just did a load of laundry ( which is something she always wanted me to do so even though i have to do it since im alone i hope she still sees it in a good light) anyway she stated she needs my tax forms because she is going to her parents house and doing our taxes there. I play it cool and actuasly end the call myself. now the old me would be a little sad because i told her that i had off this week thur- sat ( i work 6 on 3 off) but sice i have zero expectations i told her taht i was going with a friend to watch a powerlifting event on sat and see another buddy fri night. i didnt tell her this untill she told me she was going to her parents house. this way if she wanted to do something i still could have but since she dosent i still have plans to fall back on