I want to make it very clear - I want this to work with H more than anything. When I married him, I meant it.

He knows how I feel, but how can I get this across to him consistently without breaking all of the DB rules, and without having a big R talk? The only catch is that even though I want the marriage, I want it to live up to its potential, not to continue on the same path it was on. I simply cannot live like that anymore.


JennyB
Me: 29
Him: 29
No kids
Married: Nov/05
Bomb: ILYBNILWY March/07
Back: May/07 "I love you, want to work things out."
2nd Bomb: August/07
I moved out: March/08
House sold, living apart
Waiting for papers...