Well, Jen...I guess we will find out on Saturday and Sunday.
For those who haven't been following my intrepid journey, Saturday is her birthday. I have purchased a beautiful gift for her, and I'm taking her out to a high-end restaurant. This was all arranged when things were going well for us, and she told me not to cancel.
Sunday, the whole family is coming here for dinner, to celebrate both W's and her mom's birthdays. It should be a total blast.
Although I plan to be a DB robot the entire weekend, I would appreciate everyone's advice on how to be, what to do, what NOT to do, etc.
For instance, do I kiss her when I pick her up? Hug? Because it is a romantic restaurant, will she feel pressured or relaxed? I suppose it depends on how I behave ~
Sunday will be easier. I will just relax...enjoy her company, and enjoy seeing my kids, their partners, and the in-laws. Interact. Laugh. Pay attention to her, but not too much. See if she comes to me. Look for signs.